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Dr. Bob’s IT DEPENDS's avatar

How do you see reversing the void?

Ruben Gagarin, MD's avatar

Thank you for your question.

I think it is what my mother did.

I was raised without a father, so she felt I needed paternal role models, and none of her suitors fit the bill. So, instead of marrying a half-good man, she found a few great ones. Her standard was not professional success, I don't think. I was the character quality.

One of them was my uncle, an artist and a model family man. Another was a young -Ish PhD student. I think that's what did it. They were decent people I could strive to become.

It worked - I am rather successful professionally, and my family is over 30 years and counting.

I think we fill the void my restoring the Village full of different people we learn from.

Dr. Bob’s IT DEPENDS's avatar

Don’t forget your gene foundation which is at least half of your outcomes